Group discussion > Define "Better Life"

Define "Better Life"

Aleksandar Malečić
869 days ago

How can one recognize a person with a good life? Is your life good? Are you sure? What could you do to make it better? Feel free to share your thoughts (Has anyone even read these words? Do you care?) in this topic or anywhere in this group (>>>>Shoot!). They don't have to be the best thoughts ever. I have my opinions about those subjects, but I'll add them when this monologue becomes a dialogue.

 

Aleksandar Malečić
816 days ago

I am trying to align my offline activities with ecology and sustainability. There is nothing hidden in my profile here. Actually, there is nothing in my profile. That means that all my activities remotely related to this meshwork are conversations and e-mail messaging. I am trying to find a job or any activity that will allow me to take care about environment. I'll be trying, trying, and keep on trying. I live in the middle of nowhere when we talk about sustainable mentality and technologies. I'll start a blog or a page or a group here about my activities in the real world if anything worth mentioning happens. If it happens, I guess my life will be better.

Aleksandar Malečić
760 days ago

If there is something worth trying and a person keeps on trying, it's a good life. You can't work with other people if they don't want to work with you. It's like lottery - you can't expect a jackpot if you don't pay (invest).

Aleksandar Malečić
749 days ago

Who is happier - an average American or an average Cuban? Whose lifestyle should be globalized? Whose lifestyle is being globalized? I am not talking about communism/capitalism or dictatorship/democracy. Societies and our names for them are meaningless in cosmic relations.

Aleksandar Malečić
732 days ago

Business as usual feeds on your unhappy thoughts. If they need a constant economic growth, companies and governments need our constant unhappiness, wounded souls that only a good day of shopping can temporarily heal. Your self-fulfilment can't be a part of any statistics.

Aleksandar Malečić
731 days ago

We must redefine our set of values. What can we sacrifice? What must remain untouched no matter what happens? I mean, there is a point when you say: "I can imagine my life without certain things, but don't touch my car/cigarettes/plastics/deodorant/ultra soft toilet paper!"

Aleksandar Malečić
715 days ago

The most common way to evaluate a quality of one's life is to compare it to other people. Some managers and CEOs have enormous salaries. After information about their amounts had been publicly available with a goal to create the "shame on you" effect, the salaries went through the roof. We are the peak generation. Natural resources will be disappearing in front of our eyes. Are we really intelligent?

Aleksandar Malečić
550 days ago

It seems that the mantra of eternal growth and well being is ready for one more ride. Better life is strictly defined in comparison to other people. If someone else's life is "better" (he/she has more money), the main goal is to be unhappy and like a racing dog trying to reach it. I can't see sustainability fitting smoothly and without friction with this vision.

Aleksandar Malečić
506 days ago

This comment is written at the beginning of 2011. Will this year be better for you than the previous one? How do you compare two years? Our generation will deal with the best intents and results of previous generations of civilized and organized people.

Aleksandar Malečić
280 days ago

We must somehow figure out how to create adequate role models for this lifetime, century and even further. The idea of sustainability will, even if other conditions are provided, succeed or fail depending on our collective perception of “fulfiled” or “good” life. It’s a huge task to turn thing upside down and keep them turned that way. I doubt that financially rich people with many divorces and cocaine addicts are very happy, no matter what economy as we know it and its statistics claim. Also, one original (not necessarily useful and valuable) approach to business/entertainment can be enough for a person to earn his/ her “first million”, i.e. an amount of money that is enough for joining the social elite. The easiest money is in organized crime, drugs and similar activities. Education, agriculture and good manners are somewhere near the bottom. There is something wrong in the idea that tech balloons and novelties are a mechanism for social stratification. Rich people are powerful and influential no matter that their profit is mostly based on selfishness (usually not paying enough for coworkers and taxes). It’s absurd to let those who don’t care about anyone or anything to be at the top of human species and all living beings and natural resources.

The approach to “better life” described above is being spread and globalized. It forces nations across the world to ignore agriculture and clean water and fresh air and to become globally competitive in all kinds of novelties just to keep their heads above the surface. Novelties are things that were either irrelevant in the past (in comparison to tight communities and good manners) or gadgets that should prevent technologically advanced societies from falling apart (energy, infrastructure, economy…). This kind of “better life” is very vulnerable, especially if it’s globalized and too big to fail (a system with a huge inertia).

Aleksandar Malečić
256 days ago

If (or when) the modern society started collapsing (becoming less organizationally and financially demanding, reaching the limits of growth set by the fact that the size of this planet is limited, competition and debts ("selfishness")...), which components (infrastructure, profitability focused on services instead of production, community and agriculture, corporations...) should be intact?